REDEMPTION A Sermon by Kenneth W. Phifer Delivered at First UU Church Ann Arbor 9/14/03 Redemption is one of the central purposes of religion. The Encyclopedia of Religion speaks of redemption as "delivering… (humanity) from the disabilities of existence." These disabilities include sin, immorality, suffering, frailty, ignorance, and mortality. Religions have responded with a multitude of doctrines to explain how we can be relieved of these disabilities. The Buddhists offer the Eight-Fold Path. The Hindus teach confession in the Laws of Manu. Christians speak of accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior These and the many other doctrines of redemption point to an important human need, the need to deal with our inadequacies, our mistakes, our moral failings, our weakness, and the brevity of our lives no matter how long we live. The signboard on the Seventh Day Adventist Church on Packard had these telling words on it: "Every saint has a past." Think of what that means for those of us who are not saints, and most of us are not. Not in the past but in the present we speak unkind words to those we love. We think of a hundred good deeds to do, but never get around to them. We envy those with more money, a bigger house, a fancier car, a better job, and those with youth and vigor. The list is too long of the ways in which pride and egotism and selfishness and laziness turn us aside from doing good and avoiding evil. Not just as individuals but as groups—national, ethnic, religious, familial-- are we guilty of grievous acts of wickedness. Samantha Power has written a book about the horrors humanity visited upon itself in the 20th century. In "A PROBLEM FROM HELL": AMERICA AND THE AGE OF GENOCIDE, she writes of what happened to the Armenians, the Jews, the Cambodians, in Iraq, in Bosnia, in Rwanda. We are living in the wake of 9/11, an act together with the responses to it that indicates that the 21st century may well be as horrifying as the 20th. We need redemption, all right, as individuals and as groups. We need what one friend said when I asked her what redemption meant to her. In this verbal Rorschach-test, she said that it meant to her a "new beginning, a chance to make up for one's mistakes, forgiveness, and hope for the future." We all need these things, today and tomorrow. How might we find them in this new century when so many of the older answers no longer speak to us? There are elements in both the Jewish and the Christian traditions that offer us insight and direction. Redemption in the classic Christian understanding holds that it is Jesus who has effected this for us. Humanity is too sinful to pay the price God exacts, so God through Jesus Christ does so on our behalf. There is another understanding in Christianity that places the responsibility on us. This understanding is at least as old as the figure of Arius, one of the early ancestors of the Unitarian movement. Jesus is seen as a moral exemplar. He showed us how to live a worthy, virtuous life. He pointed the way in his Sermon on the Mount, in his parables, in the gentleness with which he approached the downtrodden of society, and in the manner in which he faced his death. Insofar as we allow that moral influence to inspire us, we can be redeemed. That is a doctrine of the here and now, a doctrine of how I should treat my spouse and my children, how I should act toward my co-workers, how I comport myself as a citizen. It is a doctrine of redemption that is more ethically than theologically focused, and as such of far more practical value. The Jewish tradition also offers help in developing a meaningful understanding of redemption. In the 30th chapter of Deuteronomy are found these words: "Surely, this instruction which I enjoin upon you this day is not too baffling for you, nor is it beyond reach. It is not in the heavens, that you should say, 'Who among us can go up to the heavens and get it for us and impart it to us, that we may observe it?' Neither is it beyond the sea, that you should say,' Who among us can cross to the other side of the sea and get it for us and impart it to us, that we may observe it?' No, the thing is very close to you, in your mouth and in your heart, to observe it. See, I set before you this day life and prosperity, death and adversity…I have put before you life and death, blessing and curse. Choose life—if you and your offspring would live…" (Deuteronomy 30: 11-14, 15, 19) Doing the right thing is neither too hard to understand nor too hard to do. The good is not in the heavens nor across the sea so that only the heroic can accomplish the good. The good is right here before us—in our mouth, in our heart—and we can do it. Each of us as an individual and collectively all of us together must decide what kind of life, what kind of world we are going to have. Deuteronomy urges us to choose life, to choose prosperity, to choose blessing. That is the path to redemption. If we are to choose life, to try to build a redeemed world and redeem ourselves in the process, we will need first of all an inspiring vision of what that life might look like. It is important to have a vision, a dream, an idea of how human beings could live together in harmony. The vision motivates us to do the work of making that dream real. Some of you will remember when our congregation first began to dream of moving out of our cramped quarters on Washtenaw. Our auditorium was too small, our classrooms were dangerously overcrowded, and we had only on- street parking. We dreamed of a building like this, where we would have room for all the people who wanted to be part of a liberal religious community. That dream inspired us to do the work, to make the sacrifices, to pay the price, to constantly redeem our mistakes, to forgive one another when we acted badly, and to provide us with hope for the future. We are now alive with the vision of what our new religious education wing will offer to us. We need a vision of what we might become. Three of the most influential traditions in the western world—the Jewish, the Christian, and the Humanist--offer us noble possibilities. The prophet Amos called on us "to let justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream." (Amos 5:24) The prophet Isaiah spoke of a time when the people would "beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks," a time when "nation shall not lift up sword against nation, neither shall they learn war any more." (Isaiah 2:4) Ezekiel gave us the wonderful imagery of the dead bones rising up and coming together again, while Jonah taught us that even our enemies are worthy of our concern. The prophets foresaw a time when even nature would be at peace as lions and lambs would lie down together. Such a world is a world redeemed. To the realization of such a world we can gladly give our best efforts. Jesus blessed the poor and those that hunger, those who weep and those who are excluded, saying that theirs would be the kingdom of heaven. He honored the peacemakers and the merciful. The world Jesus pointed to is a world redeemed by goodness and joy, by kindness and love, by justice and humility. This is the path to redemption, here, now, for each of us in our personal lives, for all of us in our communal life. It is a wonderful vision to follow! A vision from the 20th century is found in the Humanist Manifesto of 1933, prepared by a member of this congregation, Roy Wood Sellars, and signed by its minister and 32 other liberal religious thinkers, the most prominent of whom was John Dewey. The Humanist Manifesto spoke of religion as a "means for realizing the highest values of life." It said that religion must encourage a "heightened sense of personal life and …a cooperative effort to promote social well- being." The Manifesto urged that we work for a "free and universal society in which people voluntarily and intelligently cooperate for the common good." "Religion," said the Manifesto, "must work increasingly for joy in living." Not theology but ethics, not grim and doctrinaire teachings but joyfulness and openness, not individual salvation that excludes others but shared struggle to bring about a common good—that is the noble purpose of religion that can help us to redeem ourselves and the world. Redemption needs a vision of what might be, of how we could live together, of what justice and peace and happiness might look like. We need that vision to carry us through the dark times, to repel the seductive lure of easier paths, to inspire us to "keep our eyes on the Prize, and keep on moving towards it." A second thing we need if we are to work for redemption is the ability to accept imperfection. One of the difficulties with traditional religious presentations of redemption is that they appear—however they were intended—to be focused on perfection. In the eastern religions that involve reincarnation, the goal is to be pure, free of the karmic burdens that hold us back from nirvana. In the classic Christian view, it is Jesus who has done all the work, so that when we accept him as our savior, "we are washed white in the blood of the Lamb." However noble the vision that may inspire us towards redemption, it is unlikely that we shall ever attain the purity of that vision. Indeed, if redemption does indeed depend on perfection, few if any will ever be redeemed. Human beings cannot live in absolutes. When we expect it of ourselves or of others, only harm results. I saw a movie that reflects a devastating example of such harm. It is called THE MAGDALENE SISTERS. It is about institutions in Ireland run by the Catholic Church and supported by the public until 1996. Girls who were suspected of some kind of sexual impurity were sent to these places, there to be cleansed so they could be redeemed. Some girls literally spent their lives there, doing laundry and other menial tasks, trying to pay for what they were told are terrible sins. The movie centers on four teenage girls. Two have been sent there because of giving birth out of wedlock. One is sent there because boys ogled her, leading the nuns at her orphanage to suspect she led them on. The fourth was raped. When she reported the rape to her family, they ushered her out the door to this place; she must, they assumed, have seduced him, even if only by being female. The purpose of the institution is to teach the girls the wickedness of their sexuality and how dangerous it is to do anything with that sexuality other than to conceive and bear children within a marriage. Some of the nuns who run the place are unspeakably cruel, constantly humiliating and verbally abusing and sometimes beating the girls. The religion of these people has no room for the imperfect, for the wild yearnings that come unbidden to our bodies, for even the innocence that might be mistaken for seduction, not even for the sexual assault of a boy which the girl did all in her power to resist. The methods of the institution do not redeem. They condemn. They stigmatize the girls inside and out with a sense of guilt over natural human feelings. What redemption there is for these girls—and not all of them find such redemption-- is a redemption they carve out for themselves, learning to forgive themselves for being human, learning to go on despite the years of torture through which they have lived, at the very least determined not to inflict on others the sufferings through which they have gone. Few of us are forced to endure what the girls sent to these institutions had to endure. But all of us get knocked down by life from time to time, sometimes tripping over our own feet. We all have to learn how to pick ourselves up and start all over again. We all need to learn not to beat ourselves up so much that we are paralyzed by guilt. Carl Gustav Jung believed that the forms of religion expressed "the living process of the unconscious in the form of the drama of repentance, sacrifice, and redemption." Something deep inside our nature calls on us to find a way to keep going. If we feel guilty, then repent, make amends, and go on. If we are just embarrassed by our mistake, then blush briefly and go on. The poor, dear woman who tried fruitlessly to teach me to play piano when I was a small child had little success with a boy far more interested in the outdoors than the magnificent instrument before which I sat. But one lesson stuck: when you are playing in a recital, do not stop if you make a mistake. Keep playing. Some will not even know you played a wrong note. Those who do are more interested in what you do after that wrong note. Keep playing. Learn from the mistakes. Correct them immediately where that is possible, and later if that is the best we can do. Apologize if that is called for. At all costs keep on playing. Treasure as nothing else those rare days, rare recitals, rare speeches or essays or moments in a relationship when it all comes together and works beautifully. Mostly, though, in work or in play, in family life or in public venues, things do not work so well. We make mistakes. If doing so causes us to stop playing or to play badly because we are brooding about what we did, we then cannot redeem ourselves for our errors. There would be no games, no musical performances, no parental nurturing, no work or play of any kind if perfection were the standard. Redemption is about making things better, not making things perfect. Thirdly, if we would redeem ourselves and redeem the world, we must practice the art of benediction. Susan Manker-Seale writes of benediction that it is "A speaking well of Each other and the world A speaking well of what we value Honesty Love Forgiveness Trust A speaking well of our efforts A speaking well of our dreams This is how we celebrate life Through speaking well of it Living the benediction And becoming as a word Well-spoken." The full power of benediction is that it involves more than just speaking good. It means first of all that we think good. If we do not have good thoughts, then we cannot have good words. Thinking is very hard. Thinking about the good is even harder. Our minds are affected by petty jealousies, pride, defensiveness, insecurity, and even bad digestion. Tiredness can keep us from clear thought. So can sadness, worry, disappointment, and bad weather. When we can overcome the obstacles and think of what it means to be kind, to be cheerful, to be helpful, to be patient, that can help us to speak the words that will bless not curse the world. Words can, of course, be deceptive. We live in an age of mass communication with experts who use good words to deceive or to manipulate. Politicians, advertisers, entertainers, deceitful lovers all befoul the world with good words in the service of unworthy purposes. But good words used truthfully can redeem our individual lives and sometimes the world itself. I love you. You are my friend. Thank you. Let me help you. I'll do it. I'm sorry. That's wonderful. You can do it. Wow! Good words do us good: good words that boost the spirits, touch a chord of intimacy with another, help us to feel appreciated, give us the courage to go on, express our awe in the face of something grand. Good words help us to live better lives, redeemed lives. Sometimes the good words are harsh because we are having to face up to difficult truths. But if there are difficult truths to face up to, evading them can serve no good purpose. The Truth and Reconciliation Commission in South Africa did not right every wrong, turn every injustice into justice, or recompense every victim. What it did do was help every South African—black, colored, and white—to see the truth of what had gone on under apartheid. Seeing that truth, acknowledging the evil of that system, has helped that society to heal. It has held at bay the massive bloodbath that almost everyone expected at the transfer of power from minority white to majority black. Violence there is, but on nowhere near the scale that was expected. The good words in this case were harsh words about terrible deeds, but the purpose of them was to cleanse and heal, and they have done so. The art of benediction is an important part of redemption: thinking good, speaking good, doing good. Redemption is a process for which we are responsible. It is helpful to have a vision of what that redemption would look like. It is helpful to be accepting of our own and all of life's imperfections.It is helpful to practice benediction. Thirty five years ago, at the age of 11, Mary Bell committed two ghastly crimes. Today she is the mother of a teenaged daughter. Mary Bell has redeemed herself from a childhood filled with abuse by her sociopathic mother and from a wretched prison experience when she became an adult that in many ways repeated the horrors of her childhood. She has redeemed herself in part because she has clung for many years to a vision of what might be, a vision revealed in the words she uttered on first seeing her child: "Hello, I've been waiting a long time to see you." With that vision she "created inside herself…(the discipline) to give her daughter a normal life." She has redeemed herself in part because she accepts her failings, rejecting the easy excuse that her childhood woes are to blame for what she did. She says to this day, "Nothing can justify what I did," even as she spends her days strengthening the family that she and her partner Jim have created with their daughter. She has redeemed herself in part by becoming a living benediction, seeking to work, to study, to live in peace with her family, "to be normal," to think good and to speak good and to live good. If Mary Bell can redeem herself, any one can. We cannot make ourselves or the world pure, but we can make it better. That is the meaning and the task of redemption\. It is important work for every one of us. Copyright 2003, Kenneth W. Phifer, All Rights Reserved 10